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Building Cross-Departmental Trust Between Engineering and Sales

Designed for Mid-level engineering and sales leaders tasked with launching a new joint product initiative in a rapidly scaling tech organization to spark real collaboration and high-energy learning.

A 90-minute hybrid workshop with engineering and sales leaders co-located in different offices, many of whom have experienced missed deadlines, finger-pointing, and a 'us-vs-them' mindset. The urgent pain point: Collaboration breakdowns are threatening a critical new product launch.

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Activity 1

Trust Thermometer Kickoff

Participants anonymously rate the current trust level between departments using a digital poll (e.g., scale 1-10), then guess how the other department rated the same question. Revealing the results sparks curiosity about perspectives and sets up honest discussion.

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Why this works

Anonymous, comparative polling reduces psychological barriers and primes engagement by surfacing real, curiosity-driven discrepancies.

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Activity 2

Debunk the ‘Sales-Engineering Myth’

Facilitator presents three common myths (e.g., 'Sales only cares about commissions,' 'Engineering doesn’t care about deadlines') and invites participants to vote—true, false, or ‘depends.’ Quick discussion reveals nuanced realities and breaks down misconceptions.

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Why this works

Directly surfacing and challenging stereotypes helps participants mentally update their frames, increasing openness to new trust-building behaviors.

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Activity 3

Silent Post-It Swap

Each participant writes one recent frustration with the other department (no names), then swaps post-its anonymously. They briefly read and respond by writing one possible positive intent behind the frustration. This low-pressure, silent exercise surfaces pain points without confrontation.

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Why this works

Anonymous sharing and reframing lowers defensiveness, allowing empathy and constructive thinking to emerge—even for tough issues.

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Activity 4

Lightning Story Relay

Divide participants into mixed-engineering-and-sales pairs. Each pair shares a 1-minute story of when cross-department trust worked—or failed—during a project. After 3 rapid rounds, people vote for the most energizing story. The room buzzes with quick, meaningful exchanges.

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Why this works

Short, timed storytelling gets everyone talking, surfaces real emotions, and creates positive energy through shared experience.

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Activity 5

Product Launch Dilemma

Facilitator presents a real dilemma: 'Sales has promised a client a feature that Engineering says is impossible within the timeline.' Small groups role-play as both departments, negotiating how to respond. Groups report back on their decisions and lessons learned.

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Why this works

Real-world scenarios invite participants to grapple with messiness, revealing practical trust-building behaviors and decision-making under pressure.

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Activity 6

Trust Commitment Reflection

Each participant writes a personal, actionable commitment for cross-departmental trust (e.g., 'I’ll cc Sales on spec updates every Friday'). They share these commitments in pairs and, if comfortable, post them to a shared board. The session closes with a ‘trust pledge’ moment.

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Why this works

Personal reflection and public commitment increase accountability and deepen connections—anchoring learning in personal action.

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